How To Speak To Women

How To Speak To Women - 3Do's  AndDo Not's

We all love to talk to women , some of us have a natural girft when it comes to talking to women where as for most of us it can actually be quite a daunting and difficult challenge, you need to know what to say to keep her interested in the conversation and probably more importantly you need to know which topics not to bring up durin that all important first conversation, well we have compiled 3 of the most important do's and do not's when it comes to practising how to talk to women.

Firstly here are three topics you should NEVERbring up when you first meet a woman.

#1 Probably the biggest one is religion, this is a very touchy subject as a norm and depending on what you say it could turn her away from you for good eg. you have sound religious views and she doesn't or worse you could start a bit of an athiest rant to find out that she is devout catholic, either way it is not good for you. The first couple of conversations are all about building attraction and likeness between two people so stay away from this topic until you know each other better and know that the other person is going to feel comfortable with the topic aswell.

#2 The second biggest one and one that if probably just as important is politics, politics is an argument starter for most people and some people can get fired up over it fairly easily so be careful, if you were to bring it up only to find that the two of you have conflicting views you could find yourself in the dog house before you've even been on a date which makes this topic of conversation extremely counter productive considering that building attraction and getting a date is your ultimate goal here.

#3 Last one you should never bring up in conversation is your work, unless you are a movie star or a stunt car driver the topic of your work is likely to bore her brainless, after all which girl wants to hear about how you sit on a computer all day entering data or punching holes in sheet metal, the worst thing that bringing this topic up does is not only bore her but it also gives the impression that you are a boring person as a whole which is almost guaranteed to ruin your chances of even striking up further conversations with the person that your trying to talk to on top of the fact that it gives a completely false impression about who you are which can be a real inner confidence killer.

How To Speak To Women - 3 Do's  And Do Not's

Now that we have that out of the way we can talk about three things you should definately do when first having a conversation with a woman that you like.

#1 Make the conversation fun, as you've most probably figured out by now the first couple of conversations at least need to be fun and stimulating because boring conversation = no date, so make it fun, find out what she finds exciting and talk about that, the easiest way to do this is just ask her questions and let her speak, by doing this you're allowing her to choose the conversation topic, this way you're less likely to pick a troubling topic. By talking about something that she will find fun and stimulating whether you realize it or not you are actually creating an attraction between you and your lady friend which is where you want to be at.

#2 Use her name everywhere that you can this is proven to be one of the biggest ways to get her to notice you are be more interested in what you have to say, otherwise she may be thinking that you don't even know her name or haven't bothered to make the effort to even remember it which is an instant turn off as it gives the impression that all you are after is a one night stand, also by using her name it makes the conversation more personalised and makes her feel more part of it which is likely to make her want to converse with you further.

#3 Finally you want to qualify her, No where near enough men out there do this, they spend all of there time talking instead of letting her talk, this can often give her the impression that you think that she has nothing worth talking about and most girls will get bored very fast sitting there listening to what you have to say if they don't have the chance to talk about anything themselves, let her impress you with her  conversation ideas instead of simply trailing on just what you want to talk about, by doing this it will make her feel like an important part of the conversation which can go a long way towards getting you a date.

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